Wednesday, January 23, 2008

HE'S NO LONGER A BOY...

I only have two sons and one of them is already married . When my eldest son Zaid 'transformed' from a boy to an adolescent I wasn't there with him since he was staying in the school hostel in KB. Therefore, I wasn't really see the transforming process, the changes in his behaviour, his physical body and most of all his alertness of his appearance. All I know Zaid has become a well behave , matured and attractive adolescent .



I remember my favourite question asked whenever I went to visit him was , " Have you dreamed yet ?? " and he was always giving me the same answer jokingly, " Yes, I dream of a green frog everynight...hehehe ."



And that was Zaid 10 years ago.

Izzat is going to be 14 this year and he has never been staying alone without me. He used to be my baby for eight years before Mimi came to replace him as my little baby. I could really trace and keep track of his transformation from a cute little boy to a strong, husky, tall ( some people say he is handsome , I'm not gonna admit that before him coz he 'll be 'perasan' .... ) adolescent . The same 'dream' question was also never been answered by Izzat. Well, I do not have to get the 'yes' answer because by looking at his body and listen to his voice the answer is beyond YES.... no doubt about it.
My little boy is now very self-concious of his appearance especially his face. He started to consult me on what kind of whitening lotion ( he used to be fair but now quite dark ) , pimple remover , toothpaste, deodorant , hair gel and other facial and body treatment care.
in just one year the changes are obviously seen in these two pictures
After a few times applying the whitening lotion and foam on his face , one evening he complained that his complexion was still the same, still quite dark. I told him it is okay and fine to be dark as long as his face is clean and the most important factor in life is being a responsible and well-behave person, not the colour of the skin.
Izzat's grooming 'toys'.....
Well, my little baby is no longer a boy, he is now an adolescent and in a few more years he'll be an adult.........

17 comments:

Cat Cat said...

Kak Rina,
Wah, anak bujang Kak Rina ini pandai jugak nak jaga diri... Muka kena berseri. Good lah. I like man like that... Pandai jaga diri sendiri...

Ada kawan hubby cerita dia tak pernah basuh muka... Mau terkejut beruk Cath dengar...

Ummi said...

Kak Rina, si bujang I pun sama. Sibuk dengan rambut dia. Kalau nak keluar mengalahkan ummi nak bersiap.

simah said...

rindu la akak...am back :0)

ah..the joy of parenthood... it is interesting kan when u suddenly realise that ur kids have sort of grown up? akak lagi la... dah kawin dah pun ada... walaupun anak saya still kecik..the transformation pun affects me a lot...

masyaAllah..ur kids r lovely'

SoFie NuR said...

hahahaa...da besa rupenye my bro ni...jgn nk ngada2 sgt dah..hilang macho nti...hehe...

silversarina said...

cat cat,

sapa sangka budak kecik yang selalu mandi cowboy dah pandai nak melawa....

masa kat jordan dulu arab biasalah tak mandi berbulan lamanya....tak tahannnnn.



ummi,


wah mesti sikat berpuluh kali dan mengadap cermin 3/4 kali sebelum keluar.... kelakarkan tengok gelagat diaorang.

silversarina said...

simah,

akak pun rindu kat simah and the kids.... tak lama lagi hatice and baddin mesti macam-macam benda kena siapkan for gooming...cutenya diaorang tu...



sofie nur,


kalau berdiri sebelah you mesti orang kata you adik izzat...usah perasan ekkk... izzat dah rajin dan baik sangat sebab dah busy dengan aktiviti sekolah and dah start nak diet takut gemok...hehehe

Kak Elle said...

ingat girls aje yg suka menda2 tu..tapi betul men now dah pergi facial semua....

tak lama lagi izat akan jadi pemalu...hehe...thats when life begins as a teenager kan?

Mama Rock said...

kak rina, no matter how big they have grown, they are still our babies kan, kan, kan...? or is it just me :)

SoFie NuR said...

hehe..ni yg buat i suke ni...jadi adik yg comey n HOT gitu...hahahaa...

JHaZKiTaRo said...

tibe2 teringat lagu britney spears: 'i'm not a girl, not yet a woman'. hahahah. by the way, org laki2 pun kene jugak jaga kebersihan.. saye kalau mandi, mmg tak sah kalau tak sabun, shampoo, sapu lotion muke n berus gigi.. kalau tak buat salah satu, rase tak lengkap n tak selesa.. hihihi

kc said...

perghhh, si izzat punye toiletries mengalahkan org pompuan lak. sket lagi nak pakai perfume lak. mesti idol dia dr sheikh muszaphar ek? (kenyit mata..)

cikMilah said...

Alahai anak omaaakk!
brilliant, handsome lagi..

silversarina said...

kak elle,

Entahlah Izzat ni memang pemalu terutama dengan perempuan. Gang dia pun dah pandai jaga muka dan body , kira okaylah ke arah yang lebih bagus :)



mama rock,


Memang betul, I selalu rasa Izzat masih budak kecil dan rasanya dia pun rasa macam dia masih my baby, selalu je nak kiss .

silversarina said...

sofie ,

Usah perasan lah.... :P




jhaz,


Doktor mesti jaga penampilan dan kebersihan kalau tak... fuhhhh ...lari pesakit atau bertambah sakit lepas jumpa doktor tak mandi....hehehe.

silversarina said...

kc,

Perfume dia selalu share dngan ayahnya, memang nak kena belikan yang manly punya ni...



cikmilah,

Anak mak dah bosa..tak lama lagi tinggal lah maknya rindu pada anak yang akan dewasa...

saffaa saidatul said...

hihih..lawaknye izzat ni.. i wonder how is my bro now..dunno whether he has 'make up set' more than me or not now..hahaha

silversarina said...

saffaa,

Hari tu pergi your house tapi tak sempat jumpa your brother, agaknya dah pandai melawa jugak..hehehe.

Izzat balik sini semua orang yang kenal dia terkejut tengok dia tinggi .